After countless searches, you finally bagged, snuggled and found the one out of your curiosities. May you encounter them in the bar, you decided to swap numbers. Had a couple of coffees, then movies well needless to say You've dated, conquered and what now my amigo? what now?
To be honest I'm
not the perfect of all examples of giving advices to this, because I know I
will raise a few eyebrows but I shed my expereince.
THIS ISN'T YOUR
ORDINARY RELATIONSHIP
Yes my friend, this
isn't. To first timers, the newbie to the ride - you've pretty much have to
understand is that You started the ride in this rollercoaster, there is not
turning back. My friend, you should know this isn't like your average or so-so
or to hell with it relationship. It's no longer going to be as simple as your
ex's counting the girls you slept with and took serious with. You should
prepare to come and be ready for the things to come. You should be ready for
the quirks, the tails and whole nine yards my friend. And I tell you amigo,
once you master it - you expect to be the perfect that she would imagine, and
utopia for you both.
DUDE YOU SHOULD
KNOW BY KNOW WHAT LOVE MEANS
When you came to
this relationship what were you thinking? Well those things will be always
something that you have to time and time again to prove youself why are you
into relationship. If you're in it for the curiosity, the best bj's, and
biggest boobies you can hold - then dude, I tell you - leave you c*ck for the
whores that are in this site for the money. TG's are like females, they have
hearts, and emotions for you - they needs and wants, but are you ready to
answer why do you love her? To begin with - do you see them as gay,
transgender, transvetite, a crossdresser? a male with oversize manboobs? a male
i love to f**k? if those are the things going to your head - then again leave,
and kill yourself.
Love is blind,
admit it. You should fall in love because she makes you complete, she makes you
giddy when you wake up, and she makes you leave with a secret smile, a smile of
true love. You be able to see her for who she really is - as to shallow hal
did, if you haven't seen the movie (I want't you to shoot yourself in the
head with a nail gun), I want you to watch it. You be able to see her true
worth, and learn to love her as you would as your soulmate.
DUDE IS A LADY
In the relationship
there a some things you've got to realize, dude is a lady. You have to be
immune to her deep voice, modulations, waking up her in the morning glow on how
you self each morning, and the hair, that you shave or the upkeep that you
keep. Are you ready to handle things like that when you are about to sleep
together for the first time.
By now you should
be able that sex isn't what it is with her, theres something going to hit your
head hard. Are you ready for to see a guys junk on a girls body? If your not
ready to look down, dude your not really ready for this to begin with. You got
to admit, before Jane there was Joe. You got to admit that there is no more
fingering but more of the action of a different kind. Are you go to deep to
something that you tried once, and experience much more.
I have to let you
realize, are you ready to show her to the world on how much you love her? are
you ready to hold her hand without being ashamed? are you to be sweet and
cutsie together? if its something that of out of your comfort zone - leave my
friend.
Tip my friend:
Treat it like any other girl, surprises, sweet stuff, and keep it simple is the
best key to one's heart. I know you like that - so remember the golden rule Do
to others what you want them to do to you.
THE PERKS, THE QUIRKS
Every
TG is different, the perks in which the sex is good, the best ever, you may
also deal with the loving and the nurturing. You may also encounter the
spoiler, the teacher, and more. You may encounter the wild ones, that even
succubuses will cry that they've lost their place in the world. But mind you my
friend they are the most jealous ones, they also are the creatures who deserves
more attention that your house plant, and others can take revenge on you twice
as hard.
Are
you ready to deal with this? Mind you if you have discussed your ex's, the
skeletons of your closet to her - be ready to be haunted all over again. She
may dig issues and toss it back to you when you fight.
If
your a player, be ready to be played by a better version of you.
She
will backlash things as a bitter gourd, and will never stop. Then it will come
back to the first thing - are you ready for this? are you for more like this?
If you're tapping yourself like to a weenie to Ken Shamrock's ankle lock or to
Undertaker's Hell Gate (triangle choke) - submitting and giving up - you
weren't ready.
Dude
you must stand firm each time you fight, and be like bamboo. Adopt and grow,
and be flexible to the winds that blow. I know its ball crushing hard, but let
go of that ego, that damn pride of yours. If you truly love her, make it work.
MAKE IT DAMN WORK.
If
there are issues you have, grow up, leave it - in this kind of relationship -
she is still part guy - she knows your game and your steps, and she has the
woman's intuition too. Be ready to face consequences for every action you deal.
Mind you honest is what she needs.
And
if early as now, your not ready to see HIM (ala powerpuff girls), then drop it.
Tip
my friend: Reassure, reaffirm, ready. Things you need to come by when there is
an issue involved, old or new. You have to reassure its the past, and continue
to do so, reaffirm with you are doing this, and ready yourself for whatever
things that come next.
THE
WHOLE TREE
Are
you ready to go Meet the Fockers? well here's the thing not everyone is
accepting. I had my fair share with my mom wasn't approving. Are you ready to
deal stress and questions? These basically revolve, How did you meet? How did
you know its love? Why her? Why not girls? You got to mind and really face
them, with pride that why you chose her and why you love her, and mind you, you
will get her giddy that you stood by her.
An
prepare my friend, The folks will question, and even ask if you got STD.
Again
are you ready?
Tips
my friend: This are like a thesis defense, it's like how well you know yourself
and your girl, acing it is easy and stick to the story.
THE
SUM UP
Maintenance
to this relationship is quite simple, keep on moving forward, make it work. And
the thing you always have to face - what's next? why do I still love her?
Meaning you have to be ready for the next issues and challenges, and keep on
finding to build chemistry without those - your doomed to fail.
Like
all relationships, they demand attention (which includes the security), and
affirmation (why you love them in the first place) - as long you both grow, after
all it takes two tango it will suceed.
Good
luck amigo.
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revised as of 10/17 -
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